help with my new parakeet.
how long does it take a parakeet to get used to you? mine doesn't seem to like me at all and i've had her for a little over a week. she freaks out when i put my hand in the cage to change her food or water. she never comes out of her cage when i leave the door open for her. she makes no noise and i never see her drink, i just saw her eat for the first time a few days ago and afterwards she was smacking her beak loudly as though she was thirsty. i also saw her sleep for the first time today and i'm concerned that my current sleeping pattern is really messing up hers.
i come home from work around midnight or later, then i go in my room and turn the lights on and watch tv or sit on the computer and then sleep from 5am to 1pm or 2pm. i noticed her sleeping when i walked into my room today around midnight again, but as soon as i sat down on my bed i looked up and she was wide awake, looking at me.
what can i do to make her more comfortable, to get used to me? will she ever want to sit on my finger, shoulder, or at least fly out of her cage? my boyfriend got her for me at petsmart, so i highly doubt she was ever hand fed or anything. should i consider keeping her in another room so my sleeping patterns and noise don't bother her, or will that just make her even more distant from me?
i've been doing a lot of googling, but i'm mostly just confused and worried. help? advice? :(
also, please include any advice you have on owning a parakeet for the first time! i'm trying to learn on my own, but i really don't want to do anything wrong.